[livingwith]

Then he’s an evil S.O.B.
My first wife lost all interest, became actively hostile, about 17 years ago. We fought about it a lot. Quite a lot. I did without entirely for 15 of those years. I mean entirely.
Then she died of breast cancer 2 years ago.
Now I have a wonderful and lusty wife…and I can’t get it up with a crane, even with the magic blue pill.
She’s being patient, and kind, and supportive, and I feel like I should rip it out at the root so it will quit obstructing...Read the full article

[learningaboutT]

I truly do hear the pain in your post. I am so sorry to hear this situation.

Mine is not quite as desperate, but I feel a similar anger. My husband's first wife got him when he was young and virile, and she turned him away every chance she got, from what he tells me. So now he's 45, I'm 33, I was a young, lusty bride... and he had low T and very often couldn't get it going.

Sometimes I get so mad thinking of how this other cold woman got my husband's best, hottest, youthful lusty years.... and she didn't even want or appreciate all the sex. I want it and would appreciate it, but can't get it.... it infuriates me to think that she had everything I want and now it's dead and gone.